When people talk about "risky" sex, usually they're talking about how likely it is to have consequences you might not want, such as STIs or pregnancy. You might hear terms like "low risk" or "high...
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A fetish is something specific that turns a person on. Sometimes, a person with a fetish might have a hard time getting turned on unless they're engaging in their fetish. There are lots of different...
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This answer to someone's question gives some helpful suggestion like thinking about the many kinds of sex, asking about safer sex, and being open to someone wanting the same kinds of sex you...
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Sexual frustration can be tricky to talk about because everyone has different libidos. The libido, or sex drive, is how much someone likes to have sex, or how often they want to have sex....
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It's fairly common for people to sometimes have sex under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Whether or not you and your partners have sex after drinking or using drugs is up to you. There are lots...
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Consent is when someone is really excited to do something and they tell their partner. For example, when you tell someone that you really want to kiss, you're consenting to kissing. With anything...
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Knowing when you're ready to be in love isn't always as straight-forward as it may seem. Lots of things can make knowing when you're ready to fall in love complicated. And sometimes, we aren't even...
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This resource from Scarleteen offers guidance for how to make your very own want/will/won't list, which they call a "yes/no/maybe" list. It even has a free downloadable pdf file to help you get...
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How can you know if you're ready to start a new relationship again after coming out of one? GoAskAlice has some suggestions for how to figure it...
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Most of us have some idea in our mind about what a relationship looks like. For many people, this usually looks like monogamy: one person with one other person, and any outside sexual or romantic...
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